Whether to text first or wait depends on your relationship, communication patterns, and comfort level. There is no universal rule. Consider mutual effort, your own feelings, and the other person’s responsiveness. A balanced approach often works best.
If he only texts you at night, it may indicate he sees the relationship as casual, is busy during the day, or feels more comfortable after dark. The meaning depends on consistency, effort, and how the interaction makes you feel. Pay attention to patterns and your own needs.
When someone takes long to text back, it can mean many things: they are busy, they have different communication habits, they need time to think, or they are not prioritizing the conversation. The meaning depends on the relationship, their usual pattern, and overall effort. Look for consistency and directness rather than reading into response times alone.